Cline says, "Those who oppose gay marriage do so with a vehemence:
it's not simply that they would rather not see it exist, but rather
that they regard gay marriage as perhaps the greatest moral and
social evil to occur since the legalization of abortion. They cannot
be dismissed as mere cranks - it is important to understand what
their arguments are in order to determine how good their case is and
to refute it if their position is unsound."
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DISCRIMINATION IS IMMORAL
Enough Said
Statement from Matt
Foreman
Executive Director
National Gay And Lesbian
Task Force
I'm hearing both gay and
straight people say that the long string of losses we've faced at the
polls around marriage equality are really our own fault; our community
pushed too hard and too fast, they argue. The prominent theme being
generated is that we have failed to "educate" the public about who we
really are and get beyond the stereotypes of leather people, butch
dykes, circuit boys and drag queens – and that it is now our obligation
to reintroduce ourselves to the American people. I also repeatedly hear
that it's up to us to reframe the terms of the debate away from "moral
values" to simpler concepts, such as fairness, which polls indicate
resonate most with the public.
I disagree. This is
nothing more than the blame-the-victim mentality afflicting our nation
generally and the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT)
movement specifically.
Rather than reframing the
debate away from moral values, we must embrace them. Or more precisely,
the utter immorality of the escalating attacks against LGBT people. And,
equally, the utter immorality in the failure of so many people of good
will to stand with us. It is time for us to seize the moral high ground
and state unambiguously that anti-gay discrimination in any form is
immoral.
Webster's defines discrimination as "unfair treatment of a person or
group on the basis of prejudice." By any measure, LGBT people are
targets of discrimination in employment, housing, and public
accommodations. FBI statistics show that more people are being murdered
because of their sexual orientation than for any other bias reason. Our
young people are still routinely bullied in schools. The examples of
injustices in the area of partner and family recognition are too many to
list.
No thinking or feeling
person can deny these realities, which, as always, fall hardest on LGBT
people of color and those who are poor.
But, alarmingly, rather
than seeing a groundswell of support for measures to combat these
injustices, the opposite is occurring. In Congress and in statehouses
nationwide, it's rhetorical and legislative open season on LGBT people.
For example, over the last nine months, anti-marriage state
constitutional amendments were put on the ballot in 14 states, 10 of
which also prohibit the recognition of any form of relationship between
people of the same gender. It's likely another 12 states will have
similar measures on the ballot within 3 years.
Nothing like this has
happened since the Constitution was ratified in 1791 – essentially a
national referendum inviting the public to vote to deprive a small
minority of Americans of rights the majority takes for granted and sees
as fundamental.
And who's been there to
fight these amendments? Basically us, the very minority under attack.
Mainstream media and churches are largely silent to our opponents' lies.
Most progressive organizations and political campaigns, meanwhile, steer
clear. There have been sterling exceptions, but they have been few and
far between.
Many people who see
themselves as supporters of equal rights for all tolerate this because
they believe prejudice on the basis of sexual orientation is profoundly
different than that based on race or religion – that it comes from an
understandable disapproval of our behavior – not on some "immutable
characteristic." Homosexual behavior, they feel, is "unnatural" (doesn't
the Bible say so?). Pundits say there is an "ick" factor – that the
thought of gay sex revolts non-gay people, and that this seemingly
innate reaction is proof there is something wrong with homosexuality.
This rationale is hardly
unique to gay people. Scholars point to comparable "ick" sentiments
about Irish immigrants in the 1880s, and describe how in preceding
generations sexual ideology was used to strengthen control over slaves
and to justify the taking of Native American lands, and that for
centuries Jews were associated with disease and urban degeneration.
Fact is, there is no
justification for anti-gay prejudice; the "justifications" for it are as
unfounded as those used to support the second-class treatment of other
minorities in past generations.
So, what needs to be done?
First, everyone must
realize that when straight people say gay people should not have the
freedom to marry, they are saying we are not as good or deserving as
they are. It's that simple, no matter how one attempts to sugarcoat it.
This is unacceptable – and
it is immoral.
Second, while we should
talk to straight people honestly about our lives, we must flatly reject
the notion that we are somehow to blame for all of this because we have
not effectively communicated our "stories" to others. Fundamentally, it
is not our job to prove to others that we can be good neighbors, good
parents, and that gee whiz, we're actually people too.
Third, equality will
remain elusive if we keep relying on intellectualized arguments or by
dryly cataloguing, for example, each of the 1,138 federal rights and
responsibilities we are forced to forgo due to marriage inequality.
The other side goes for
the gut; it's now our turn.
In this vein, we must put
others on the spot to stand up and fight for us. As the cascade of lies
pours forth from the Anti-Gay Industry, morality demands that non-gay
people speak out with the same vehemence as they would if it was another
minority under attack. Ministers and rabbis must be challenged with the
question, "Where is your voice?" Elected officials who meet with and
attend events of the Anti-Gay Industry, must be met with the challenge,
"How can you do that!? How is that public service?"
The orchestrated campaign to deny us jobs, family recognition, children,
and housing is immoral. Silently bearing witness to this discrimination
is immoral.
America is in the midst of
another ugly chapter in its struggle with the forces of bigotry. People
of good will can either rise up to speak for lesbian, gay bisexual and
transgender Americans, or look back upon themselves 20 years from now
with deserved shame.
DO SOMETHING
Message For Older Gays
Statement From Gianni
Tampa Bay Coalition
If
any of you are at least 50 or older, you, along with me, can
remember how important it was to keep your gay secret. Of
course, before the 70's there weren't any polite words like gay.
All the standard insults were there. Being homosexual was the
epitome of perversion and degradation; something never spoken of
in any type of polite or common conversation.
For example, before the early 70's, New York had a law that
prohibited any bar or club from serving alcohol to a homosexual.
Of course, most gay men passed easily. Imagine not being able to
legally get a drink in a public bar like the other straight
patrons. This was the law that the police used to back up their
bar raids. When things were slow out on the streets, they would
just get prepared with the paddy wagons and go raid a couple of
known gay hangouts, arrest and fine the patrons, close and fine
the bar owner, and call it a night. Imagine kids, being hustled
out of a bar and arrested for being gay and having a drink! In
Atlantic City there were gay clubs but you couldn't dance or
touch in any fashion. Even when dancing became permissible, you
were not allowed to touch because that would get a club closed
down and fined. Try to imagine it.
One night in 1969 (yes only 30 years ago) in New York's
Greenwich Village at the Stonewall Inn, the police pulled one of
their many gay bar raids and all hell broke loose. The fight
started and continued for several nights. Gay Liberation as a
national struggle was born.
I remember in 1972 (I was 22 at the time) tuning in to The
David Susskind Show because he was having a panel of lesbians on
to discuss being gay and gay liberation. You young people won't
remember but, at that time, talk shows were not like they are
today. The David Susskind show was a serious show with serious
and informative discussions. The audiences at the talk shows
were adult and quiet and sometimes allowed to ask questions at
specific times. There was nothing like the ridiculous
carrying-on that you see all the time on Springer, etc.
Anyway it was the first time I had ever seen such an open
discussion on TV. Where I grew up, I was absolutely certain I
was the only gay man within many miles. I watched that show on
every channel it appeared for a whole week. Being that there was
no such thing as a video recorder, I taped it on cassette tape.
I still have it and listen to it at least once a year. I had to
make a copy of it about 3 years ago as the tape was getting too
old and fragile. It still stirs me like it did 30 years ago.
Things have changed and we are not so much the filthiest things
on the planet. However, as we all hear and see all the time now,
the hatred is still very much alive and as vicious. It's just
all out in the open. The old myths about "queers" are still
going strong.
Kids, let me reassure you that these self-righteous bastards
will do anything to send us back into nonexistence. We see that
in the news all the time. This year Oregon will be voting on an
antigay measure for the 32nd time. They are relentless and we
have to be also. Don't take it for granted that someone else
will do the fighting for you. We all need to do this together in
any legal fashion that we are able. We deserve everything that
the law grants to them. Don't wait expecting them to someday get
nice to us. Your society still would rather you didn't exist.
And for us older people, we must not allow ourselves to just
sit back figuring that we don't have to bother because it's up
to the younger folks. They need our voices as much as we need
theirs. Do something to help us all become equal citizens.