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What is meant
by the term
"Sexual Minority?"
It is
an expression that
refers to persons who
aspire to any lifestyle or orientation that doesn’t
comply with the
mainstream
heterosexual concept
of normal behavior.
People with
homosexual or
bisexual orientations
have long been
stigmatized
Heterosexism is the
assumption that only
heterosexual relationships
are normal and should
therefore be privileged

HELPFUL LINKS
Sexual Prejudice:
Understanding
Homophobia
& Heterosexism
by George Herek
Heterosexism Enquirer
Privilege & Oppression:
NCDD Report on
Heterosexual Privilege
McGill Equity
Subcommittee
on Queer People
One Institute:
Overcoming
Homophobia &
Heterosexism
Wikipedia:
Heterosexism
I Have
Heterosexual
Privilege if...
BCTF
Homophobia &
Heterosexism
Action Group
Heterosexism:
Definitions
& Responses
US Dept of
Health &
Human Services
NCDD Model:
Heterosexual Privilege
Queer Theory
Sage
Publications:
Group Exercise
From GLSEN
Born Different

Heterosexism
is based
on societal values that
dictate that everyone is,
or should be, heterosexual
Intentionally or
unintentionally, our society
privileges heterosexuality
and heterosexual persons,
and devalues, mistreats,
or discriminates against
lesbian, gay, bisexual,
two-spirited, queer,
|and/or transgendered
persons and those
perceived to be so.
Heterosexual privilege
bestows unearned and
unchallenged advantages
and rewards on
heterosexuals solely as
a result of their
sexual orientation.
These benefits are not
automatically granted
to LGBQTT persons.

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DEFINING HOMOPHOBIA
Fear, Prejudice, Oppression
Homophobia: The fear,
hatred, disgust, mistreatment, or intolerance of same-sex intimacy,
relationships, “atypical” gender behavior, and/or people who identify as
or are perceived as LGBT.
Heterosexism: The belief
in the inherent superiority of heterosexuality and, thereby, it’s right
to dominance. Carries with it the assumption that everyone one meets is
heterosexual.
Homophobia refers to the many ways in which people are oppressed on the
basis of sexual orientation. Sometimes homophobia is intentional, where
there is a clear intent to hurt lesbian, gay, and bisexual people.
Homophobia can also be unintentional, where there is no desire to hurt
anyone, but where people are unaware of the consequences of their
actions.
There
are four distinct but interrelated types of homophobia: personal,
interpersonal, institutional, and cultural. Institutional and cultural
homophobia are often referred to as heterosexism.
Personal homophobia
is prejudice. It is the personal belief that lesbian, gay, and bisexual
people are sinful, immoral, sick, inferior to heterosexuals, or
incomplete women and men. Prejudice towards any group is learned
behavior; people have to be taught to be prejudiced.
Personal homophobia
is sometimes experienced as the fear of being perceived as lesbian, gay,
or bisexual. This fear can lead to trying to “prove” one’s
heterosexuality. Anyone, regardless of their sexual orientation, can
experience personal homophobia. When this happens with lesbians, gay,
and bisexual people, it is sometimes called “internalized homophobia.”
Interpersonal homophobia
is the fear, dislike, or hatred of people believed to be lesbian, gay,
or bisexual. This hatred or dislike may be expressed by name-calling,
verbal and physical harassment, and individual acts of discrimination or
by the rejection of friends, co-workers, and/or family members.
Lesbian, gay, and
bisexual people are regularly attacked for no other reason than their
assailants’ homophobia. Most people act out their fears of lesbians and
gay men in non-violent, more commonplace ways. Relatives often shun
their lesbian and gay family members; co-workers are distant and cold to
lesbian and gay employees; or people simply never ask about
acquaintances’ lives.
Institutional homophobia
refers to
the many ways in which government, business, religious institutions, and
other institutions and organizations discriminate against people on the
basis of sexual orientation. These organizations and institutions set
policies, allocate resources, and maintain both written and unwritten
standards for the behavior of their members in ways that discriminate.
For example, many
religious organizations have stated policies against lesbian, gay, and
bisexual people holding offices; many schools fail or refuse to allocate
funds and staff for lesbian, gay, and bisexual support groups; and many
businesses have norms for social events which prevent lesbian, gay, and
bisexual employees from bringing their same sex partners while
heterosexual employees bring their opposite sex partners.
Cultural homophobia
refers to social standards and norms that dictate
that being heterosexual is better or more moral than being lesbian or
gay, and that everyone is heterosexual or should be. While these
standards are not written down as such, they are spelled out each day in
the television shows and print advertisements where virtually every
character is heterosexual and every sexual relationship involves a
female and a male; or in the assumption made by most adults in social
situations that all “normal” children will eventually be attracted to
and marry a person of the other sex.
Often, heterosexuals don’t realize that these
standards exist, while lesbian, gay, and bisexual people are acutely
aware of the standards. The feeling that results is one of being an
outsider in the society.
HETEROSEXUAL
PRIVILEGE
Living without ever
having to think twice, face, confront, engage, or cope with anything on
this page. Heterosexuals can address these phenomena, but
social/political forces do not require them to do so.
Not questioning your
normalcy, sexually and culturally:
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Having role
models of your gender and sexual orientation
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Learning about
romance and relationships from fiction, movies, and television
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Having positive
media images of people with whom you can identify
Validation from the
culture, friends, and family:
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Living with your
partner and doing so openly to all
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Talking about
your relationship, and what projects, vacations, and family planning
you and your lover/partner are creating
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Expressing pain
when a relationship ends and having other people notice and attend
to your pain
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Receiving social
acceptance from neighbors, colleagues, and new friends
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Not having to
hide and lie about gay/lesbian friends and social activities
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Dating the
person of the gender you desire in your teen years
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Kissing/hugging/being affectionate in public without threat or
punishment
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Living
comfortably in a residence hall without enduring the fear of
rejection from floor or roommates
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Dressing without
worrying about what it represents
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Working without
being identified by your sexuality/culture (e.g., you get to be a
farmer, bricklayer, artist, etc., without being labeled the
heterosexual farmer, the heterosexual bricklayer, or the
heterosexual artist)
Institutional
Acceptance:
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Increased
possibilities for getting a job, receiving on the job training and
promotion
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Receiving
validation from your religious community, being able to be a member
of the clergy/religious leadership
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Being employed
as a teacher in pre-school through high school without fear of being
fired any day because you are assumed to corrupt children
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Adopting
children, foster-parenting children
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Raising children
without threats of state intervention, without children having to be
worried which of their friends might reject them because of their
parent’s sexuality and culture
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Being able to
serve in the military
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Receiving equal
benefits for you and your partner
Legal marriage,
which includes the following privileges:
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Public
recognition and support for an intimate relationship
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Celebration of
your commitment to another with gifts, cards, and congratulations
from others.
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Social
expectations of longevity and stability for your committed
relationships
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Joint child
custody
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Paid leave from
employment and condolences when grieving the death of your
partner/lover
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Property laws,
filing joint tax returns, inheriting from your partner/lover
automatically under probate laws
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Sharing health,
auto, and homeowners’ insurance policies at reduced rates
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Immediate access
to your loved ones in cases of accident or emergency
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Family-of-origin
support for a life partner/lover
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Access to a
hospitalized love one
SEXUAL PREJUDICE
Homophobia & Heterosexism
People with
homosexual or bisexual orientations have long been stigmatized.
With the rise of the gay political movement in the late 1960s,
however, homosexuality's condemnation as immoral, criminal, and
sick came under increasing scrutiny. When the American
Psychiatric Association dropped homosexuality as a psychiatric
diagnosis in 1973, the question of why some heterosexuals harbor
strongly negative attitudes toward homosexuals began to receive
serious scientific consideration.
Homophobia
Society's rethinking of sexual orientation was crystallized in
the term homophobia, which heterosexual psychologist
George Weinberg coined in the late 1960s. Weinberg used
homophobia to label heterosexuals' dread of being in close
quarters with homosexuals as well as homosexuals' self loathing.
The word first appeared in print in 1969 and was subsequently
discussed at length in Weinberg's 1972 book, Society and the
Healthy Homosexual.
The American Heritage Dictionary (1992 edition) defines
homophobia as "aversion to gay or homosexual people or their
lifestyle or culture" and "behavior or an act based on this
aversion." Other definitions identify homophobia as an
irrational fear of homosexuality.
Heterosexism
Around the
same time, heterosexism began to be used as a term
analogous to sexism and racism, describing an ideological system
that denies, denigrates, and stigmatizes any nonheterosexual
form of behavior, identity, relationship, or community (Herek,
1990).
Using the term heterosexism highlights the parallels
between antigay sentiment and other forms of prejudice, such as
racism, antisemitism, and sexism.
Like institutional racism and sexism, heterosexism pervades
societal customs and institutions. It operates through a dual
process of invisibility and attack. Homosexuality usually
remains culturally invisible; when people who engage in
homosexual behavior or who are identified as homosexual become
visible, they are subject to attack by society.
Examples of heterosexism in the United States include the
continuing ban against lesbian and gay military personnel;
widespread lack of legal protection from antigay discrimination
in employment, housing, and services; hostility to lesbian and
gay committed relationships, recently dramatized by passage of
federal and state laws against same-gender marriage; and the
existence of sodomy laws in more than one-third of the states.
Although usage of the two words has not been uniform, homophobia
has typically been employed to describe individual antigay
attitudes and behaviors whereas heterosexism has referred to
societal-level ideologies and patterns of institutionalized
oppression of non-heterosexual people.
Limitations
By drawing popular and scientific attention to antigay
hostility, the creation of these terms marked a watershed.
Nevertheless, they have important limitations.
Critics have observed that homophobia is problematic for
at least two reasons.
First,
empirical research does not indicate that heterosexuals' antigay
attitudes can reasonably be considered a phobia in the
clinical sense. Indeed, the limited data available suggest that
many heterosexuals who express hostility toward gay men and
lesbians do not manifest the physiological reactions to
homosexuality that are associated with other phobias (see
Shields & Harriman, 1984).
Second, using homophobia implies that antigay prejudice
is an individual, clinical entity rather than a social
phenomenon rooted in cultural ideologies and intergroup
relations. Moreover, a phobia is usually experienced as
dysfunctional and unpleasant. Antigay prejudice, however, is
often highly functional for the heterosexuals who manifest it.
As antigay attitudes have become increasingly central to
conservative political and religious ideologies since the 1980s,
these limitations have become more problematic. However,
heterosexism, with its historic macro-level focus on
cultural ideologies rather than individual attitudes, is not a
satisfactory replacement for homophobia.
Sexual Prejudice
Scientific analysis
of the psychology of antigay attitudes will be facilitated by a
new term. Sexual prejudice serves this purpose nicely.
Broadly conceived, sexual prejudice refers to all negative
attitudes based on sexual orientation, whether the target is
homosexual, bisexual, or heterosexual. Given the current social
organization of sexuality, however, such prejudice is almost
always directed at people who engage in homosexual behavior or
label themselves gay, lesbian, or bisexual (Herek,
2000).
Like other types of prejudice, sexual prejudice has three
principal features:
It is an attitude (i.e., an evaluation or judgment).
It is directed at a social group and its members.
It is negative, involving hostility or dislike.
Conceptualizing
heterosexuals' negative attitudes toward homosexuality and
bisexuality as sexual prejudice – rather than homophobia – has
several advantages. First, sexual prejudice is a descriptive
term. Unlike homophobia, it conveys no a priori assumptions
about the origins, dynamics, and underlying motivations of
antigay attitudes.
Second, the term explicitly links the study of antigay hostility
with the rich tradition of social psychological research on
prejudice.
Third, using the construct of sexual prejudice does not require
value judgments that antigay attitudes are inherently irrational
or evil.
Herek, G. M. (1990). The
context of anti-gay violence: Notes on cultural and
psychological heterosexism. Journal of Interpersonal
Violence, 5, 316-333.
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Herek, G. M. (2000). The psychology of sexual prejudice.
Current Directions in Psychological Science, 9, 19-22.
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Read more about the paper
Shields, S. A., & Harriman, R. E. (1984). Fear of male
homosexuality: Cardiac responses of low and high homonegative
males. Journal of Homosexuality, 10(1/2), 53-67.
WHAT IS
HETEROSEXUAL PRIVILEGE?
I Have
Heterosexual Privilege If……
I don’t have to worry about hiding my friends, partner,
and my weekend activities and can talk about it when I
come in to work on Monday morning.
--I don’t have to feel like a split personality.
--I am able to be fully who I am at work or school
without having to worry about what others may say about
my partner or friends.
--I don’t have to lead a double life.
If I
should need to move, I can be pretty sure that my
neighbors will be neutral, pleasant, and/or accepting of
me.
I can turn
on the TV or radio or open up to the front page of the
paper and see people of my orientation widely and
positively represented.
When
people talk about our national heritage or civilization,
I am shown that people like me did contribute to it in
positive and healthy ways.
I can, at
my workplace, talk about my partner or have a picture on
my desk, without fearing that people will automatically
disapprove or think that I am being “flamboyant,”
“blatant,” or “forcing my beliefs” upon them.
I can be open about my sexual orientation at work
without fear of reprisal in terms of job promotion, loss
of job, or be accused of negatively affecting the work
climate.
I can bring my partner to work related parties and
events and be seen as promoting a positive familial
climate.
I can get paid leave from work and/or condolences when
grieving for the death of a long term partner.
My friends can be seen with me without being afraid of
being labeled by others.
I can go apartment or house hunting with my partner
without fear of reprisal.
I can, if I wish, arrange to be in the company of people
of my sexual orientation most of the time.
I can avoid spending time with people who look upon my
sexual orientation with repulsion, hatred, loathing, or
even pity.
I can publicly hold hands, kiss, or otherwise express
affection to my loved one without fear of harassment or
attack.
I can express myself sexually without the fear of being
prosecuted for breaking the law.
My romantic and emotional intimacies have not been
reduced to being based upon an act of sex.
I can go wherever I want and know that I will not be
harassed, beaten, mugged, or killed because of my sexual
orientation.
I can talk about my sexual orientation without people
thinking that it is abnormal, unnatural, a crime against
God or Nature, or that I am a freak.
I have never been accused of being “disgusting,” of
flaunting my sexuality, or of being obsessed with sex
for sharing romantic experiences.
I can expect my family to include me and my partner at
family events, occasions and gatherings.
I can be pretty sure I will not be denied the right to
marry whomever I choose to.
I need not fear emotional and financial truncation from
my family because of my sexual orientation.
If I decide to adopt a child, I am perfectly certain
that my sexual orientation will not be an issue of
concern; or that I will be seen as influencing a child
towards a particular sexual orientation.
I can be pretty sure that I can raise, adopt, and teach
children without people believing that I am a child
molester or will force them into my sexual orientation.
I can be sure that my children will be given curricular
materials that testify to our familial existence in
positive ways.
I can
raise my children without fear of state intervention
because of my sexual orientation.
I can be pretty sure that my children will not be made
fun of, ridiculed, or harassed because of who raises
them.
I can approach my medical doctor and be open about my
health and illnesses without fear of being judged or
denied service.
I can approach the legal system, social service
organizations, and government agencies without fearing
discrimination because of my sexual orientation.
I can join the military and be open about my sexual
orientation.
I can belong to a religious organization or denomination
of my choice and know that I will not be condemned or
denounced by the religious leaders and the members
because of my sexual orientation.
I can be close friends with people who do not share my
sexual orientation.
I can teach from pre-school through high-school without
fear of being fired any day.
I can teach about lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, and
transgender or intersex people without being seen as
having “a bias” because of my orientation, or of forcing
a “homosexual or personal agenda” on students.
I can easily find academic courses and institutions that
give attention to people of my sexual orientation.
I can go home from most meetings of organizations I
belong to feeling tied in and accepted, rather than
isolated, outnumbered, held at a distance, or feared.
I can worry about homophobia without being seen as
self-interested or self-seeking.
I have the right to inherit jointly-owned property when
my partner passes away.
I can receive tax breaks, health and insurance coverage,
and spousal legal rights through being in a long term
relationship.
I can get auto and homeowners’ insurance policies at
reduced rates with my partner.
I have the right to visit my partner in the hospital and
intensive care and make important medical decisions for
him/her.
I can legally sponsor my partner to live in the United
States who is not a US citizen or Permanent Resident.
I can expect that most social institutions will validate
me by social gestures such as nurture, support, and the
usual celebratory cards, emails, and phone calls that
celebrate who I am and my relationship to another
person.
I don’t have to constantly explain that I am not “a
pedophile.”
I have
never been asked if I am heterosexual because I had a
bad homosexual experience.
I have never been accused of hating women because I am
married to a man.
Shiva Subbaraman, University of Maryland
HOMO-BI-TRANS-PHOBIA
More Prejudice & Discrimination
Homophobia/biphobia/transphobia take many different forms, including
physical acts of hate, violence, verbal assault, vandalism or blatant
discrimination such as firing an employee, evicting someone from their
housing or denying them access to public accommodations. There are many
other kinds of homophobia/biphobia/transphobia and heterosexism that
happen every day. We often overlook these more subtle actions and
exclusions because they seem so insignificant by comparison. They are
not. The following are examples of homophobia/biphobia/transphobia.
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Failing to be supportive when your LGBT friend is sad
about a quarrel or breakup.
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Changing your seat in a meeting because an LGBT person sat in the
chair next to yours.
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Thinking you can spot one.
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Using the terms “lesbian” or “gay” as accusatory.
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Not asking about a woman’s girlfriend/partner or a man’s
boyfriend/partner although you regularly ask “How is your
husband/wife?” when you run into a heterosexual friend.
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Thinking that a lesbian (if you are female) or gay man (if you are
male) is making sexual advances if ze touches you.
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Feeling repulsed by public displays of affection between lesbians
and gay men but accepting the same affectional displays between
heterosexuals.
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Feeling that LGBT people are too outspoken about civil rights.
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Assuming all LGBT people are sexually active.
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Feeling that discussions about homophobia and heterosexism are not
necessary since you are “okay” on these issues.
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Assuming that everyone you meet is heterosexual.
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Feeling that a lesbian is just a woman who couldn’t find a man or
that a lesbian is a woman who wants to be a man.
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Feeling that a gay man is just a man who couldn’t find a woman or
that a gay man is a man who wants to be a woman.
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Not confronting a homophobic remark for fear of being identified
with or as LGBT.
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Worrying about the effect an LGBT volunteer/co-worker will have on
your work or your clients.
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Wondering why lesbians and gay men have to “flaunt” their sexuality,
when all around you on TV, billboards, and in film heterosexuals are
exhibiting much more blatant behavior.
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Avoiding mentioning to your friends that you are involved with a
women’s organization or a men’s organization that emphasizes
domestic skills, because you are afraid that they will think you are
LGBT.
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Asking your LGBT colleagues to speak about LGBT issues, but not
about other issues about which they may be knowledgeable.
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Assuming that a lesbian or gay man would be heterosexual if given an
opportunity.
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Focusing exclusively on someone’s sexual orientation and not on
other issues of concern.
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Being outspoken about LGBT rights, but making sure everyone knows
that you are heterosexual.
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Being afraid to ask questions about LGBT issues when you don’t know
the answers.
OVERCOMING
HOMOPHOBIA & HETEROSEXISM
What
can I do about homophobia and heterosexism?
Whether you
are gay, lesbian, bisexual, two-spirited, queer,
transgendered, trans-identified or heterosexual, we all
share the responsibility to end homophobia and heterosexism.
Here are some tips:
BE
NON-JUDGMENTAL. Being LGBQTT is not something to be ashamed
of or judgmental about. Homophobia, not sexual orientation
or gender identity, is the problem.
USE GENDER
INCLUSIVE AND NON-HETEROSEXIST LANGUAGE. Do not assume that
you know someone's sexual orientation and/or the gender of
one's romantic/sexual interests. Use inclusive language even
if you know someone is heterosexual. Help educate and
encourage others to use inclusive language, as well.
ASSUME THAT
ANYONE COULD BE LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, QUEER, TWO-SPIRITED,
TRANSGENDERED OR HETEROSEXUAL. Don't assume that everyone is
heterosexual "unless you know otherwise" or that everyone
should be heterosexual. Similarly, don't assume that someone
is LGBQTT based on stereotypes or assumptions about one's
friends.
DON'T TEASE
OR HARASS OTHERS for exhibiting behaviours that are not
traditionally associated with their gender (or what you
perceive their gender to be).
DON'T "OUT"
PEOPLE. Do not force anyone to disclose one's sexual
orientation. Also, if you know that someone is LGBQTT or is
questioning one's sexual orientation, don't assume that you
may tell anyone else. Be sensitive to the fact that some
people are "out" in some areas of their lives, but not in
others.
DON'T THINK
OF LGBQTT PERSONS SOLELY IN TERMS OF THEIR SEXUAL
ORIENTATION. Just as the lives of heterosexual people
include far more than their attraction to members of the
opposite sex, LGBQTT persons also have friends, skills and
multifaceted interests unrelated to their sexual
orientation. Don't define anyone by one's sexual
orientation.
DON'T
ENGAGE IN HOMOPHOBIC JOKES, COMMENTS, SLURS OR OTHER
BEHAVIOURS. Speak up against these when you witness them. If
you don't, your silence condones and encourages such
behaviours.
EDUCATE
YOURSELF. If there are things you don't know or understand
about LGBQTT issues, do some research, ask questions or
contact a group that deals with these issues.
TALK ABOUT
SEXUAL DIVERSITY. Maintain an inclusive group, classroom,
living or workspace by talking openly and respectfully about
LGBQTT issues when they come up. Treat these issues as you
would any other issue.
REMEMBER
THAT AN INDIVIDUAL'S SEXUAL ORIENTATION INVOLVES MORE THAN
SEXUAL BEHAVIOUR. It includes attraction, companionship,
intimacy and emotional attachments as well as sexual
activity.
DO NOT
FORCE PEOPLE TO HIDE their sexual orientation or gender
identity.
DON'T
ASSUME THAT LGBQTT PEOPLE ARE SUFFERING or have regrets
about their sexual orientation and want to be heterosexual.
Likewise, if someone who is LGBQTT is having problems, don't
assume that sexual orientation is the cause.
RECOGNIZE
INTERSECTIONS AND SIMILARITIES OF PREJUDICE. Heterosexism
and other forms of oppression and discrimination have
similarities and areas of overlap. For example, a black
lesbian may experience homophobia, racism and sexism. An
East Asian man may be disadvantaged by racism in ways that
are similar to the ways a gay man is disadvantaged by
homophobia and heterosexism.
ENGAGE IN
INCLUSIVE PRACTICES. Create work, study and living
environments in which gender and sexual diversity are
included, modeled and valued.
McGill
Equity Subcommittee on Queer People /
McGill
University General Information,
James Administration Building, 845 Sherbrooke Street West,
Montreal, Quebec H3A 2T5, Tel.: 514-398-4455
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